Sunday, May 20, 2012

First of 2012


Almost half a year later, I am back…  

Every month since the end of 2011, I attempted to post.  I got excited about topics, started typing and then… never finished!  Now that I am in the plane and have absolutely no place to go (since I am in the middle seat), I realized this would be a good time, to start AND finish at least one blog, my first blog of 2012.

Our year started with an ambitious decision of selling 1261 Grove Street apartment.  Our plan was to put our house on the market by mid January.  Well… we didn’t quiet realize how much work needed to be done to make that happen especially when we had very demanding jobs.  Therefore, our plan shifted a little and we ended up putting our place on the market by the end of February.  The difficult part is NOT emptying the house to get it ready or living in a staged environment.  The difficult part IS having to live in a super organized and uncertain world – not in terms of physical organization but more in terms of not knowing the next steps.

Uncertainty and the constant willingness to move forward to the next step turn the whole process into a test – test of patience, test of support to each other, test of being realistic, test of objectivity… At every step of the process, one needs to step back to see the full picture from an outsider’s point of view…  When selling, you try to find the right person and the right amount.  When buying, you try not to jump into the first thing you see so that you have a place to call “home”.

1261 Grove Street found its new owner at the end of March and we officially shut that door on April 12th, capturing all the great memories and leaving behind all the sour ones…  We moved into our tiny little “shoe box” on April 8th and since then we have been looking forward to our next step – our new home.  At this stage, we are even more challenged to get A’s on all those tests that I mentioned earlier!  We want to find THE place, we don’t want to be in a fierce competition and we don’t want to be in our shoe box for too long…  Given all this, we constantly need to step back and tell each other that the right place is out there and we will find it.  Believe me… it is really easy to say but VERY hard to apply… Especially in such a competitive market!

As stressful as it is, we are making sure to get the best out of it.  Our trip to Mexico was definitely great where we were able to relax and “check-out” from the world to “check-in” to our little bubble.  When life gets so busy with all the outside events, days go by without you realizing…  You want to stop time, but it doesn’t listen to you.  So these trips where we have no connection with the outside world give us the best opportunity in slowing down that pace.  I have all these plans for this year and we are almost already half done with the year.  Pretty crazy, if you ask me!

One of my goals for this year is a steadier blog site…  So some of the topics that you should expect – and that I would hopefully deliver will be:
·         Energy has its limit!
·         Stress – Our friend or our enemy?
·         Finding time to be creative
·         Taking care of your most important asset – YOU

Let’s see how well I will do with the execution... :)
Oh and... here is a fancy night from this year:


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